Your self-esteem, self-love, confidence, everything that has to do with you comes down to how and how much you love yourself. Struggling with this is totally normal, we all do!
Now let’s get rid of all those insecurities and worries and let’s love us with these following tips on how to improve self-esteem, self-love, and confidence and be the better you.
1.Tel yourself “I’m the SHIZZZ!”
Your life runs on you, you control it, now own it! No burden can stand in your path of life because you’re the shizzz. You should stand taller than anyone that wants to make you feel worthless before they do. Just tell yourself f*ck it(sorry mom), they ain’t getting me down because I’m the shizzz(cool, beautiful, extraordinary, awesome).
2. Take a 30-day challenge
Taking a 30-day challenge is an affective way to build your self-esteem, it will allow you to accomplish something and feel like you did something good for yourself. challenges like:
- drawing challenge
- self-esteem challenge
- cooking challenge
- squat challenge
- compliment challenge etc
3. Compliment yourself every morning
When getting ready, tell yourself things you love about yourself, or things that would make you feel good and confident, tell yourself how beautiful you are and how sexy you look n that outfit.
Some days we don’t feel like we like anything about ourselves and that’s just when we have to go to a mirror and say,” Oh your hair looks nice today, ooh look at those thighs, I look sexy today!”, “I look gorgeous today!”. And then one day you’ll instantly notice something you love about yourself, even if it’s dumb.
4. Stop comparing yourself to others
We compare the worst of ourselves to the best of others, and we’re all so different and unique that there’s going to be so much to compare and it’s all going to turn out so differently but it’s never going to be fair so we should just stop comparing.
Appreciate what you have now and stop comparing yourself because nobody is perfect if you ever need to compare, compare with yourself.
5. Just live
Stop waiting for the approval of others, you don’t need permission from others to do what you want. Your time is precious. Get rid of your wish to be perfect, perfect doesn’t exist, just live for who you are and be you in a world where no one’s comments or approval matters. This is your journey and you only get one.
Every day is a new start, don’t forget that you have a fresh start now. Just live in every moment and let each moment be a lesson for you.